A Blog…Finally
January 2, 2008
So, finally, nearly two years after beginning our adoption process, we’re home from Vietnam with our son. Our lives have changed overnight, even though we waited for this for so long. Most everything that we suspected would happen has happened. All the things we anticipated – wonderful and not as great- have occurred. Sure, there have been a few surprises, but we waited for so long and had so much time to read, read, read, and research, research, research, that truly, little has surprised us. And yet it is all so foreign and new. So expected, yet unexpected. Does that make any sense?
I’ve read Vietnam adoption blogs for over a year, and particularly religiously since we received our referral so long ago. (I’m not just saying “so long ago” for effect. We waited nearly nine months between referral and travel.) I sat down to start one of my own a hundred times because I have so many insightful thoughtsI have a comment about everything, yet my paranoia and fierce need for privacy kept me from taking the plunge. I’ve written lots of posts in my mind about every topic covered in VN adoption land, but just couldn’t make myself write. Well, here I go. We’re back with our baby and the sleep deprivation is making me live on the edge. Danger is my middle name. Truthfully, I kept a detailed travel blog while in Vietnam and I found it very helpful, both to remember the great parts and to work through the tough ones. Plus, I have a penchant for honesty when it comes to life experiences. I figure that I benefited from other honest bloggers. so I might as well take a chance.
For now, I’m going to password protect photos and anything too personal. If you happen to read this blog and have any interest in following the future protected posts, please leave comments here and there so I feel comfortable sharing the password with you when I get to that point. I read blogs for so long and was a comment-phobe. Then, when someone would end up going PW-protected or add in a few PW protected posts, I would kick myself for not commenting previously so that I could ask for the PW. Not that I’m all that exciting or you’re just dying to read, but you know, just in case…
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Jen | January 2, 2008 at 12:37 pm
Welcome to Bloggerville! Oh yeah, and Mommy-hood!
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S. | January 2, 2008 at 7:48 pm
Yay! Another blog to read! I would love to hear about your trip to Vietnam. Congrats on bringing your baby home!
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steppingonlegos | January 2, 2008 at 9:27 pm
You know I want your goods!
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Katherine | January 2, 2008 at 9:27 pm
I’m glad that you will be posting here! I can’t wait to read more!
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Katherine | January 2, 2008 at 11:08 pm
You love me so much I am listed twice in the blogroll
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Chandra | January 3, 2008 at 12:34 am
Thanks for starting to blog. Hopefully future families will be able to get some assurance from seeing that it is not always rosy. I’m glad you won’t gloss over the hard stuff.
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Kelli K | January 3, 2008 at 1:36 am
As a PAP getting ready to be DTV, I would love to follow along with your blog!
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Kathryn | January 3, 2008 at 1:56 am
Yeah, you’re home with Mattix and starting a real live blog.
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Karen | January 3, 2008 at 2:25 am
Yeah!! I am so glad you are back in the game! I did not read your travel blog, because I was too busy being there with you!
I would love to keep up with your new blog as I am on major Laura, Ed and Mattix withdrawal!
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lookingforlulu | January 3, 2008 at 5:42 am
hey-
glad you decided to join the blogworld:)
i know the privacy stuff can be scary. but, just pw protect anything you are worried abt. the way i look at it is that there are a gazillion blogs out there..so hopefully creepy people wont weed their way through them all to mine:)
glad you are home with your boy. you waited SO long!
hoping my turn is soon!
emily
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wonderandwait | January 3, 2008 at 11:31 pm
I’m looking forward to reading all about the after adoption phase. There is not much happening over at my blog as I enter the 14th month since DTV but optimism is in the cold arctic air up here in the Great White North.
Bev
wonderandwait.blogspot.com
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Lisa Ludvigsen | January 8, 2008 at 8:37 pm
Laura,
I think you should write a book on adoption and what to expect – you always have the balls to state the good and the bad. Plus, I have about fallen off my chair LOL at some of the stuff you have written. And, I have also had tears….of joy and heartache.
Lisa